selfharmcat asked: OMG I love u and I wanted to know if u can make a video about how u feel on self harm it would mean the world to me 😊 thank u for ur time
I’ll just tell you.
Self harm doesn’t help anything. You’re hurting YOURSELF. Sure, you’ll get attention, but at one point it’s going to get out of hand. You won’t be able to control it. You’ll have a craving for putting the blade against your arm and it will be something that you will start to NEED to do in order to feel better. The worst part? You’re not actually feeling better. You’re just taking your anger, stress, and sadness out on yourself. If you harm yourself, stop before it’s too late. Your kids will see your arms and legs one day and they’ll ask you. You’ll have nothing to say. When they grow older and (hopefully not) have a depressed period in their life (something that everyone goes through and deals with differently) they will see your scars and know how you got them and they will think that that is the only way to help themselves. You’re all such beautiful people and everyone goes through hardships, some more than others, but that doesn’t mean that you should hurt yourself in any way. Self harm includes cutting, bruising, smoking, drinking, and anything that hurts your health (mental and physical) and your body. It’s not fair that you hurt yourself because the world is hurting you. You need to build yourself up to a point where you won’t let the world bring you down. This might take a while for a lot of you, but I believe in every single one of you that you have the power and strength to not let this cruel world bring you down. Sadness, pain, and depression is something that everyone will need to go through in their lifetimes. You can either pity yourself and sit there in your own blood, or learn and grow and become stronger from the experience. Self harm is serious. Depression is serious. If you need help, get help. Don’t do things to get attention, ask for help from a trusted adult. Don’t ask your friends because a lot of them don’t know how to help you, although they say they do, and they will make you feel neglected. I love you guys so much and it’s a horrible world out there, I know, but you all have to stay strong for your own sake. Build up your strength. I love you guys.
Dude, I just fell in love. Words everyone should hear who is feeling bad.